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Large Text Size Large Text Size Change text size COLUMN ONE 'Second Wives' Are Back Mistresses are again a status symbol in China. As scandal spreads, the government worries that they are a motive for public corruption. By Don Lee, Times Staff Writer SHANGHAI Li Xin knelt in a hotel room here, wearing polka-dot boxer sho rts and a grimace on his face. The deputy mayor of Jining, in Shandong province, was pleading with his l over not to report him to authorities.
But in the end, the 51-year-old official was exposed and sentenced to lif e in prison. His crime: accepting more than $500,000 in bribes, which he used to support at least four mistresses in Jining, Shanghai and Shenzh en. Li's transgressions were minor compared with those of other public offici als. A top prosecutor in Henan province, for example, was recently strip ped of his post and Communist Party membership after investigators alleg ed that he embezzled $2 million to support his lavish lifestyle and se ven mistresses. "Everyone is saying, 'Behind every corrupt official, there must be at lea st one mistress,' " says Li Xinde, an anti-corruption activist who resea rched Li Xin's case and posted on his website a photo of the deputy mayo r begging in the hotel room. China's economic boom has led to a revival of the 2-millennium-old tradit ion of "golden canaries," so called because, like the showcase birds, mi stresses here are often pampered, housed in love nests and taken out at the pleasure of their "masters." After the Communists to ok power, they sought to root out such bourgeois evils, even as Chairman Mao Tse-tung reportedly kept a harem of peasant women into his old age. Now, mistresses have become a must-have for party officials, bureaucrats and businessmen. "We are in a commodity economy," says retired Shanghai University sociolo gist Liu Dalin. "Work, technology, love, beauty, power it's all tradab le." So-called concubine villages places where lotharios keep "second wives" in comfort and seclusion are now spread across the nation, in booming cities such as Dongguan, Chengdu and Shanghai. So common is the practice that it has spawned an industry of private dete ctives snooping on cheating husbands and their paramours. One such agenc y, called Debang, based in the western city of Chengdu, underscores how "first wives" are fighting back. Debang was started by divorced women with one goal: to help desperate wiv es ferret out their double- and triple-timing husbands and make them pay for their indiscretions. Debang wouldn't comment, but informed people say the firm has expanded in to several cities and has a staff of more than 100. The mistress boom is contributing to a surge in divorces and fierce bat tles over property when relationships collapse. Not long ago, Beijing am ended the country's marriage law to make men who indulge in mistresses p ay heavy penalties and to give their spouses greater rights in separatio ns. This year the city of Nanjing issued an order for all public officials to register their extramarital relationships. In Guangzhou, a prosperous c ity in the south, a major university issued stern warnings to female stu dents about having affairs and wrecking marriages. And last month, state media reported that Hainan province had stipulated that party members w ho kept mistresses or had children outside of marriage would be expelled . Government leaders worry that philandering also could have detrimental ef fects on China's economy and the credibility of the Communist Party. State-run banks and agencies have lost billions of dollars to embezzlemen t and fraud, many at the hands of officials seeking money to support the ir golden canaries. In a government review of 102 corruption cases in se veral Guangdong province cities a few years ago, every one involved an i llicit affair. "If a government official has a mistress, there must be some corruption," says Sun Youjun, a private investigator in Shanghai. "Visits to high-en d hotels are not easy with officials' incomes." Like most bureaucrats, Li Xin had a monthly paycheck of no more than a fe w hundred dollars. But as deputy mayor for a city of 8 million that's a regional industrial and rail center, Li could easily boost his income. H e collected bribes from more than 40 businesses in exchange for helping them with land deals, commodity sales and construction projects, accordi ng to interviews and to reports in state-owned media. Li had a penchant for drinking, people familiar with the case said, and h e showered his ladies with expensive gifts and even sheltered some of th em in homes. He met his match in Li Yuchun, the woman who took the photo of him in the hotel room. The two started out as lovers, according to some accounts, and then became business partners. Li Yuchun exposed him after she learned he was laundering money. After sh e blew the whistle, she also was sent to jail this summer for five years for harboring a criminal, her brother a sentence that drew public out cry over the risks of exposing corrupt government officials. She was so enraged at her prosecution that in the courtroom, she bit her finger and with the blood scrawled on paper: "This is revenge," her lawy er, Jin Xuekong, said. Jin wouldn't talk about his client's relationship with the former deputy mayor. As in most cases involving corruption, government officials refused to co mment. But in Chinese Internet chat rooms, some called Li Yuchun a "hero mistress." In Chinese society, the practice of keeping concubines is thought to date back to the Qin Dynasty more than 2,000 years ago, when Confucianism to ok hold and women were considered inferior. An entire set of protocols developed on the relationship between men, the ir spouses and so-called little wives, or concubines. One rule specified how often a man was to have sex with his concubine (every five days). In subsequent dynasties, concubines were sometimes traded for things or s old or rented to traveling businessmen. Men regarded mistresses as marke rs of wealth and their elite status in society. For mistresses, their value and rank largely depended on whether they wer e able to produce a son and on their dealings with other concubines, a c omplex relationship that was captured in the haunting 1991 Chinese movie "Raise the Red Lantern." Unlike in feudal China when affairs were private matters, today's dirty l aundry is often aired in the online world. This summer, Chinese media an d Web surfers were caught up in the sensational story of the "richest mi stress in Shanghai." Da Beini, 23, became a celebrity after her public row with a 36-year-old Taiwanese businessman over her attempt to sell in an online auction a ga rden villa in the city of Chongqing, a white Lexus sedan and other items that many assumed were gifts from her benefactor. At a Starbucks in a high-rent district here, Da denied during an intervie w that she was a mistress. She wore a black leather jacket and clutched a Louis Vuitton handbag an original, she said, showing the tags inside . Dangling from her right earlobe were silver letters spelling Dior, and around her neck was a large white topaz. She said her clothes, her jewelry, her properties five apartments and v illas were bought with money she earned largely by investing in China' s booming real estate market about $4,000 inherited from her mother thre e years ago. "I really don't know why," Da said of the numerous reports in Chinese med ia that depicted her as a mistress. If you're young and have material things and not bad looking, they assume you must be a mistress ." Wei Wujun, known in China as the "Mistress Killer" because of his prowess for uncovering illicit relations, blames extramarital relationships on post-revolutionary China's "spiritual vacuum." Last year, 16 million married couples in Chinese split up, a 21% jump fr om 2003, according to government data. Overall, China's divorce rate, or the number of breakups divided by marriages, now hovers at about 20%, a fivefold increase since the nation began economic reforms more than two decades ago. Mao gave ideology to the Chinese, Wei said, but materialism is now their god. And many people with ...
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