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3/21    Want to attract mates? Wear red. It's proven to work by science:
        http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/03/new_book_drunk_tank_pink_argues_red_is_the_color_for_dating_profiles.single.html#pagebreak_anchor_2
        \_ Awesome artile, I bought the book, thanks for sharing. -ausman
        \_ Awesome arti[c]le, I bought the book, thanks for sharing. -ausman
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Research suggests that the woman wearing red is likely to attract more sexual attention than her otherwise identical counterparts Photos courtesy of American Apparel Let's imagine for a minute that six identical 23-year-old female sextuplets were born and raised in a secluded US town. The town is too small to provide six eligible male bachelors, so the women post their pictures on a nationwide online dating site. Their pictures are almost identical, but the women distinguish themselves by wearing six different-colored plain T-shirts. Based on their profile pictures alone, you might expect them to attract similar levels of interest--but you'd be profoundly wrong. com, the world's first online dating site, in January 1995. Match democratized the dating world, giving the shy, nervous, and squeaky-voiced relationship-seekers a chance to shine in a game once monopolized by alpha males and bar room Casanovas. In contrast to the fast-paced world of face-to-face dating, online daters have plenty of time to choose flattering photos, hone their profiles, and craft personal messages. But while the playing field is more level than it used to be, it still involves mastering unspoken rules that give some people advantages over others. OkTrends, OkCupid's now defunct research site, 32 percent of all first-time messages attract a reply. In other words, two of every three initial messages are met with silence. But response rates vary widely depending on a few critical word choices. Netspeak is usually disastrous (the response rate for messages featuring "ur," "r," and "u" is less than 10 percent), while almost 50 percent of all personalized messages that feature "you mention" or "noticed that" win a reply. The aimless, noncommittal "hi" earns a response 23 percent of the time, while messages featuring the direct question "how's it going?" Of course the people who craft these various introductory messages differ on other dimensions as well, but these figures show just how fickle online dating outcomes can be. But while people labor over their personal messages, another critical factor slips by unnoticed. began by asking heterosexual male undergraduates to spend five seconds looking at the photo of a young female stranger, and to rate her attractiveness on a scale ranging from 1 (not at all attractive) to 9 (extremely attractive). All of the undergrads saw the same woman wearing the same clothes--but the experimenters randomly changed the color of the thick border that framed the photo, alternating among white, red, blue, and green. But Elliot and his colleagues were trying to figure out whether color can actually change a person's appeal. Across five experiments, the results were always the same. The male undergrads who rated the photo bordered in red, found the woman more attractive, were more interested in asking her on a date, and willing to spend more money during the date. The researchers were also careful to show that the effect was specifically tied to sexual interest. They showed, for example, that when heterosexual women rated the attractiveness of the same female stranger, they weren't swayed by the border's color. In addition, men didn't believe the red-bordered woman was more likable, kind, or intelligent--only that she was more attractive and sexually appealing. Women are more likely to attract sexual attention when they appear in a photo bordered by the color red. The women wore jeans, sneakers, and a figure-hugging plain-colored T-shirt--much like the shirt worn by the fictional sextuplets. Taking turns on a string of bright early summer days, each one stood by the roadside near a famous peninsula in Brittany, and held out her thumb to show she was trying to hitch a ride. When 80 cars passed by, the woman retreated and changed her T-shirt, randomly choosing from a menu of black, white, red, yellow, blue, and green. Like the women in Elliot's study, Gueguen's female motorists weren't influenced by the color of the hitchhikers' T-shirts--they were just as likely to stop when the women wore red as when they wore any of the other colors. In contrast, male motorists were far more discerning, stopping about 12 to 15 percent of the time--except when the women wore red T-shirts, when they stopped 21 percent of the time. Like the male students in Elliot's lab study, male motorists preferred the women in red. During a nine month period, 64 women who were looking to meet a man agreed to post their pictures on an online dating website. Gueguen and Jacob used digital software to create six photos for each woman, identical except for the color of their T-shirts. Every two weeks they rotated the image on the website, and asked the women to count how many men contacted them. As with the artificial sextuplet thought experiment, six identical-looking women (apart from the color of their T-shirts) were effectively competing for the attention of thousands of male suitors. Just like the hitchhikers, these women received many more emails when they wore red T-shirts. Twenty-one percent of their emails arrived when they wore red, whereas the other colors--black, white, yellow, green, and blue--attracted 14 to 17 percent of the total. There are at least two possible reasons, one more convincing than the other. Why aren't yellow, black, blue, or green associated with love? The ultimate origin of red's romantic past probably reflects the second reason: Animals, from humans to baboons to finches, flush red when they're sexually receptive. lightens during the infertile midpoint of her menstrual cycle. The rush of blood that accompanies flirtation also reddens the face, neck, and upper chest, reinforcing the link between redness and sexual receptiveness. disappears when the rated women are post-menopausal (and therefore no longer fertile), it's safe to assume that animal biology explains at least part of the effect. Colors influence our judgments in other contexts as well. analyzed the penalty records of 21 National Hockey League and 28 National Football League teams. Five teams in each league happened to wear mostly black uniforms, and since black is associated with evil and aggression, the researchers found that those teams were called for more penalties than their lighter-clad counterparts. In the late 1970s, the Pittsburgh Penguins and Vancouver Canucks traded in their nonblack NHL uniforms for black uniforms, and almost immediately began conceding more penalties. Frank and Gilovich also showed that students behaved more aggressively when they wore black uniforms, and believed other students were more aggressive when those students wore black as well. Like women, men are more attractive to potential suitors when they wear red clothing. Like women, men are more attractive to potential suitors when they wear red clothing Photos courtesy of American Apparel At the other end of the spectrum, researchers seized on a bright pink color in the late 1970s that appeared to calm aggressive prisoners. Gene Baker and Ron Miller, two naval officers at a corrections center in Seattle noticed with frustration that aggressive inmates were just as violent after cooling off in solitary confinement. 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