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We're just getting to know each other, but I already know that she's had some hurtful experiences with men in the past. She says that she's very attracted to me, but doesn't want to jump into anything right away because whenever she's done that in the past, things just didn't work out. She says that this time she wants to go slow and be good friends first, and then build a relationship in the future from that foundation. And I don't want her to think that I'm only interested in sex, because I'm not. So I'm going to give her what she wants and not try to get physical with her in any way. She already told me that she really appreciates how well I 66 listen to her and how she feels like she can talk to me about anything. How long do you think is a reasonable time to be in friendship mode? And at what point do you think we should start shifting to more of the boyfriend/girlfriend mode? Any time a woman whom you're dating starts using the "F" word (friend), you'd better stop, look and listen. It means that her romantic Interest Level degree of love is low and is going anywhere but up. Garth, your girl Rachel is obviously a Professional Dater and she's got you bamboozled. She's telling you that she's attracted to you, but as with all Professional Daters, she's saying that only to keep you coming back again and again. She knows that if she admits that she's not attracted to you, then you'll bail. But buddy, the only thing she's serving you from her menu is a little bit of "hope" and that ain't enough nutrition to keep a man alive and well. Instead, she'd be hugging you and 67 kissing you, and jumping your bones. Interested in reading the latest articles we have available?
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