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Building attraction has the same principles for both hot (I prefer the word beautiful) and normal looking girls. It is not a guide to getting a girlfriend because I have not had many girlfriends for a period of more than a few months at a time. I only want to write about what I have experience with and am not too bad at: building attraction with girls.
The article was about an experiment I did to show people what it's like being a gorgeous and beautiful girl and the kind of sleazyness that she has to deal with from guys all the time, whether she is out or just has a profile on a social webstie like Facebook or Myspace. This time I have created two profiles of two completely different kinds of girls. One profile has pictures of an absolutely stunning girl with model-type looks. The other profile has pictures of a girl who is on the other end of the spectrum regarding looks and body-type. The interests and rest of the profile was filled in exactly the same for both girls. I am aware that I'm probably going to get some criticism for judging girls as gorgeous or average. However, just because someone is genetically not as good-looking as someone else does not make them any less of a person. The purpose of this experiment is to determine if all girls have to deal with the sleazyness from guys or if it is just the more beautiful girls that have that problem. Here are some of the emails that were sent to both girls' profiles.
I know I could almost be your father but still I had to rate you! sorry if i have but didnt want to take a chance if i hadnt wow so very cute :) yumm, hi hottie! i'd love to chat with you Observations and Deductions What I conclude from the two profiles is that all girls have the problem of guys coming on to them in sleazy or sexual ways. Guys are predators, that is the way it goes and it is unlikely to change anytime in the near future I think. The only difference is that beautiful girls get a lot more of it than average-looking girls. As you can see above the average-looking girl only got 3 responses while the beautiful girl got over 70 and counting (I only posted 20 of them here). From experience and from having spoken to many beautiful girls, I know that many girls actually do not go to public locations such as clubs and bars simply because of the fact that they do not want to deal with every single guy in the club coming on to them. While it may sound really cool to have so much attention, in reality it becomes a nuisance. Just like famous people having to deal with fans and paparazzi every time they go out in public, it is not always the nicest thing to have people want something from you all the time. How To Build Attraction With Girls How to build attraction with girls' is actually the wrong question and mindset. I feel that the skill of knowing how to build attraction with girls is more a way of manipulating girls if you only set out how to learn just that. You should rather be interested in knowing how to BE attractive (I'm not talking about looks). Once you focus on becoming an attractive person, you will notice all your interactions with girls will start to go a lot better and a lot more girls will start to show interest in you. You will even get to a point where girls begin to chase YOU instead of the other way around.
Without going into too much psychology, the basic principle of attraction is that the masucline is attracted to the feminine, and the feminine is attracted to the masculine. One of the reasons why so many men have difficulties attracting women is that many men are not really masculine. Things like complaining and whining, not taking responsibility, not being driven or ambitious and not having principles and boundaries are what many men do and these things repel women. As soon as you become a man who has integrity, who knows his purpose and is on his mission and who is passionate about life, you will notice that girls become attracted to you without you having to manipulate them or use some sneaky tactics on them to seduce them. That is the real truth behind attracting beautiful girls. Now let me give you a couple of hints and tips that you can easily use if you want to attract more girls and have more girls in your life. He compliments her for her beauty or mentions something about her looks and gives her some sort of sexual innuendo, maybe he offers to buy her a drink. If you really want to get the attention of a beautiful girl you need to do things and say things that immediately make you stand out from every other guy or else she will not even think about giving you a minute of her time. I have started awesome conversations with girls with the most retarded things that you would not believe in a million years. The truth is, it's not about what you say, it's how you say it. The words that come out of your mouth only account for something like 12% of the communication, everything else is in your body language and tonality. I honestly think the best way to start a conversation is to just say "Hey, I'm Diggy" or whatever comes to your mind. Body language consists of everything that you do, from the way you walk, your actions, your confidence, how you stand, how you talk to others, your voice, your tonality. When you talk to someone, do you do everything but look the other person in their eyes? The ability to keep strong eye contact is incredibly important when building attraction with girls. Often, just catching a girl's eyes with yours and keeping eye contact for a few seconds from across the room is enough to build attraction. Have no expectations of a girl, she does not owe you anything. Instead, give value, share cool stories and make her life better in some way. You're not trying to get her approval for anything, you're merely trying to have a fun conversation and if she is not interested it doesn't affect you in any way. Never take it personally when a girl doesn't want to talk to you. She might be married or be having the worst day of her life and just take that out on you. A few years ago I really sucked at talking to girls I found attractive. I would have to talk to tens of girls before I finally found one who would be interested in me. Although now I'm pretty confident that I can find a girl who finds me attractive every time I go out, it is not always the case. I don't think that anyone will ever be able to get any girl that he talks to. The more you talk to, the more chance there is that you will find lots of girls who find you attractive. Although there are some girls who are very egotistical and vain about their looks, most beautiful girls are really sweet and good people. They have just built up defense mechanisms after all those years of having to deal with the sleazy remarks from guys in every public location they visit. Words of Wisdom If you do not know how to talk to girls or how to build attraction with girls, I really suggest that you consider most of the things I wrote in this post, and that you just start going out. I don't think that anybody can teach you how to be good with girls overnight. Don't let your fear of approaching a beautiful girl or your fear of being rejected by her hold you back from actually going to talk to her. Just try not to do what 90% of the guys out there do and you will have a good chance of success already. I don't claim to be some Casanova who can get any girl at any time. There are plenty of guys who are much better than me with girls, but there are also plenty who are not. All I can say is that I'm pretty happy with myself and I'm still learning and improving myself all the time. There is no secret or holy grail that will make you successful with girls, no matter how much you can afford to pay for it. Just realize that girls are human beings, so treat them like one. They are attracted to real men and you now know what it means and what it will take to be a real man. You've got all the information and knowledge you need to attract the most beautiful women in the world, all you need to do is take action to become your best self and start talking to girls to be able to get better at it. Either way, I hope that you enjoyed reading this post and...
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