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Your Looks and Your Inbox The 4 Big Myths of Profile Pictures January 20th, 2010 by Christian Hello, old friends. I am back from dark months of data mining, here now to present my ores.
In looking closely at the astonishingly wide variety of ways our users have chosen to represent themselves, we discovered much of the collective wisdom about profile pictures was wrong. For interested readers, I explain our measurement process, and how we collected our data, at the end of the post. MYTH 1 It's better to smile One of the first things we noticed when diving into our pool of photos is that men and women have very different approaches to the camera.
Now, you're always told to look happy and make eye contact in social situations, but at least for your online dating photo, that's just not good advice. For women, a smile isn't strictly better: she actually gets the most messages by flirting directly into the camera, like the center and right-hand subjects above.
Notice that, however, that flirting away from the camera is the single worst attitude a woman can take. Certain social etiquettes apply even online: if you're going to be making eyes at someone, it should be with the person looking at your picture.
It's interesting that while making flirty eye contact is relatively okay for men, flirting away from the camera is the worst thing they, too, can do. MYTH 2 You shouldn't take your picture with your phone or webcam The rationale behind this myth seems solid: cell-phones and webcams take low-end photos; when the camera's fixed on your desktop or at the end of your arm, the context of the photo is bound to be pretty mundane; and there's the avoidable creepiness of someone lurking in the dark, in front of the computer, snapping his own picture.
Granted, the benefit of a self-shot photo is small (I'm not exactly sure what a guy's supposed to do with that extra tenth of a girl he talks to), but given our expectations and the prevalence of advice against taking your own picture for a dating profile, we thought this result was noteworthy. Perhaps what these photos lack in technological quality they make up for in intimacy, and it's undeniable that at their best, self-shot pics can have an approachable, casual vibe that makes you feel already close to the subject. This finding led us to investigate a controversial women-only subset of the self-shot picture: the universally maligned "MySpace Shot," taken by holding your camera above your head and being really darn coy.
In terms of getting new messages, the MySpace Shot is the single most effective photo type for women. We at first thought this was just because, typically, you can kind of see down the girl's shirt with the camera at that angle--indeed, that seems to be the point of shot in the first place--so we excluded all cleavage-showing shots from the pool and ran the numbers again. better, in fact, than straight-up boob pics (more on those later). At least from the perspective of online-dating, and perhaps social media in general, the MySpace Shot might be the best way for a woman to take a picture. MYTH 3 Guys should keep their shirts on The male "Ab Shot" has the same reputation as the MySpace Shot--it's an Internet clich that supposedly everyone thinks is only for bozos. To wit: a journalist was visiting our office recently, and when we told her we were researching user photos, the first thing she said was "please tell me people hate it when guys show off their abs." We hadn't finished running the numbers yet, so we confidently reassured her that people did.
Of course, there is some self-selection here: the guys showing off their abs are the ones with abs worth showing, and naturally the best bodies get lots of messages. But, contrary to everything you read about profile pictures, if you're a guy with a nice body, it's actually better to take off your shirt than to leave it on. We would never suggest to a Fitzgerald or a Dave Eggers to limit his profile to 100 words, and so why should guys with great bodies keep their best asset under wraps?
After weeks of sorting through pictures, I started calling these guys headless horsemen. An interesting caveat here is that a six-pack does seem to have a short shelf life: the effectiveness of the "abs pic" decreases sharply with age.
A 19 year-old showing his abs meets just under 14 women for every women he reaches out to, meaning that not only are females responding to his messages, but many are actually contacting him first. For a 31 year-old ab shower, that ratio has regressed to much closer to the average. Because of our restricted data set for this post, we can only make confident claims for 19 to 31 year-olds right now, but it's our strong suspicion that this downward trend continues with age. In the future perhaps we can investigate what's behind the decline: is it because older guys and their older abs are inherently less attractive, or because women as they age find body shots less interesting? One final point, vis vis men, their torsos, and the clothing thereupon: if you're not the type of guy who can show off your muscles, don't veer off in the opposite direction and get all dressed up.
There are no clear myths associated with showing cleavage in your picture. Most "experts" recommend you don't, but everyone knows that breasts get attention, so to treat that recommendation as a "myth" would be disingenuous. But since the Cleavage Shot is the feminine analogue of the Ab Shot, and an undisputed online dating archetype, we thought we should discuss it. But unlike the Abs Shot, this positive effect actually trends against the effects of age.
A 32 year-old woman showing her body gets only 1 less message a month than the equivalent 18 year-old; an older woman not showing off gets 4 messages less, a large relative fall-off in popularity. The older the woman, the more relatively successful she is showing off her body We find this anti-aging trend surprising. When we look further into the data, we can see that as women get older, they are more hesitant to emphasize their bodies, despite its still being a good strategy (at least in terms of message volume).
For women in their late teens and early twenties, body pictures are the most popular type of shot; To wrap up our cleavage discussion, let's assess the kind of messages the cleavage-showers are getting. A message like "Hey nice rack" isn't really gonna lead anywhere, and isn't very valuable to the recipient. We looked a level deeper and analyzed what resulted from the incoming contacts. we mathematically modeled a "conversation," based number of messages back and forth.
even though the two women are basically the same age, spend the same amount of time on the site, have similar profile length and quality, and have the same "attractiveness" as rated by OkCupid's male population. If you want worthwhile messages in your inbox, the value of being conversation-worthy, as opposed to merely sexy, cannot be overstated. MYTH 4 Make sure your face is showing We used to think that the one iron-clad rule of Internet dating photos was to at least show your face.
But the facts were stubborn: your face doesn't necessarily matter. In fact, not showing your face can in fact be a positive, as long as you substitute in something unusual, sexy, or mysterious enough to make people want to talk to you.
All of the above subjects get far more messages than average, and yet none of them have outstanding profiles. The pictures do all the work: in different ways, they pique the viewer's curiosity and say a lot about who the subject is (or wants to be). Of course, we wouldn't recommend that you meet someone in person without first seeing a full photo of them, that still seems like a recipe for disaster. In the near future, we're going to be arranging series of blind dates through the site, and profile photo accuracy vs. the success of the date will be a big part of the report. How we collected and evaluated this data Our data set was chosen at random from all users in big cities, with only one profile photograph, between the ages of 18 and 32. We then lopped the most and least attractive members of the pool, fearing that the...
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