3/30 a girl i went to a party with on saturday got really drunk
and whispered to me 'I REALLY LIKE SEX'. I ignored her
because my hemorrhoid was angry. What should I have done?
\_ Your hemorrhoid (sp?) saved you from a moral fault. It's
unethical to have sex with a person who's incapable of
consent. However, now you know she likes sex. So,
invite her non-drunk ass "over for a movie".
\_ Thanks motd ethic guy!
\_ Take her to the SF Yoga place a few threads down.
\_ I thought one taste was women only
\_ 1/3-2/3 of girls really like sex. She was drunk and stated a fact.
\_ Your numbers are low.
\_ Too high. Number is more like 2%.
\_ troll much?
\_ You have had sex with 50 women and only one of them
liked it? Maybe the problem is not with the women..
\_ I doubt he's had sex with 50 women.
\_ Or maybe it is:
"A recent study conducted by Laumann and colleagues
and the University of Chicago) of American women
(ages 18-59) found that the most common sexual
problem in women is hypoactive sexual desire
disorder (HSDD), more commonly referred to as low sex
drive or libido (33.4%), followed by difficulty with
orgasm (24.1%) [and] [P]ain during intercourse --
which occurs in 14.4% of women." Only 33% of women
think about sex 2-3 times a week or more. These are
people responding to a survey. I would bet $1M that
the real numbers are even worse given the prevalence
of "no sex after marriage" jokes and how strip clubs
and hookers seem to do great business among married
men. Only 32% of men rate their sex lives as "very
satisfied" whereas 46% of women say so. It's pretty
clear that women are pretty happy with the status
quo while men want more sex. I really doubt very
many women want more sex. I read that 2% of women
report wanting to have sex more than 1x per day
versus, probably, 98% of men. So this slut is in the
2%. I hope you don't catch a disease.
\_ I'm known plenty of women with a low sex drive
and/or "difficulty with orgasm" who quite enjoy
sex. Doubly so when they have been drinking.
\_ Triply so once they have passed out I'm sure.
\_ If you don't understand the difference
between have been drinking and drunk to
the point where consent is blurry
(which is well after the first and well
before passed out), well, it's no wonder
\_ If you don't understand the huge lines
between "have been drinking", "drunk
to the point where consent is blurry"
and "passed out", well, it's no wonder
you also think most women hate sex.
\_ Why are you calling her a slut? So what if
she likes sex? Take your double standard
and shove it.
\_ Isn't a slut a woman who likes a lot of sex?
It's not really derogatory in this context.
\_ Isn't a slut an easy woman who likes a lot of sex?
She sure sounds like a slut given her behavior.
\_ Isn't a slut an easy woman who likes a lot of
sex? She sure sounds like a slut given her
behavior.
\_ No, a slut would be a person who has sex
indiscriminately. -tom
\_ Does she sound discriminating to you?
\_ I'm arguing the semantics. Liking sex
is not equivalent to, or even
particularly related to, being slutty.
-tom
\_ Isn't the term perjorative? It is really
amusing and kind of sad that you complain about
women not wanting sex and then insult those
that do.
amusing and kind of sad that you complain
about women not wanting sex and then insult
those that do.
\_ Yep. I prefer the term "libertine", since
it sounds kinda cool. But it's probably
still slightly pejorative. I guess the
least pejorative term for such a woman is
"empowered".
\_ Why do you need a term for it? There's
nothing unusual about enjoying sex. -tom
\_ Hyperbole doesn't really help you make your case.
You think that 98% of men aged 18-59 want sex more
than once a day? I would take your $1M in a minute,
btw, as this survey seems about right to me. There
is a huge difference between 32% and 2%, you know.
\_ and 32% fits right in my 1/3-2/3 range. YMMV.
\_ 32% of men are satisfied, which means 68% are not.
I'm not sure what point you are making here. Mine
was that lots of women do not think about sex,
do not enjoy sex, and even find it painful and
at the same time rate their sex life as
satisfactory. In other words, they are very
happy with the status quo, which involves very
little sex (can't possibly be a lot if you
only *THINK* about it 2-3x per week). The men
are pretty unhappy with this arrangement. I
think you can reasonably say that men enjoy
sex more and that women are fairly happy
having it infrequently. It's biology. Most
women only get horny a few times per month,
although the pill has screwed many women up so
badly who knows what their biology is like.
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