3/10    Is it customary for a best man to still give gifts to the groom
        after spending $$$ and a bunch of time for the groom? I am the
        groom and my best man gave me a nice *#@(@ gift, and I really
        didn't deserve it... I didn't give him much when I went to
        his wedding a few years ago. So much mental torture -full of guilt
        \_ No. I think it is customary for the groom to give the best man
           a gift.
           \_ That's what I thought.                            -op