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12/8    So are The Mormon's really interested in equal rights?
                         \_ Learn proper use of apostrophes'
        http://tinyurl.com/6g6up4 (LA Times)
                                   \_ Can you link to a non-bankrupt source?
        \_ The LDS church never took away rights. They just organized and
           dumped a lot of money into a definition.  They want the definition
           of marriage to be man and woman.  There are no rights taken away
           here.  Gay people can still get married, just not to people of
           their same sex.
           \_ Your brain has been classified as: absent without leave.
           \_ The LDS church as an institution never dumped money anywhere
              regarding Prop 8.
                \_ Riiight. I guess those many articles, including a
                   good one from the NYT, were confused.
                   \_ LDS Church encouraged its members to donate, but didn't
                      donate money itself that I'm aware of.  Do you have a
                      URL where it states the church donated money?  I'd
                      be interested to see.  -vallard
                      \_ They have been accused of not properly reporting
                         "in kind" donations, which the FPPC is looking into.
                         I don't know of any serious claims that they gave
                         money directly.
           \_ Almost too stupid to respond to, but the CA Supreme Court
              clearly declared that gay marriage was a right, so Prop 8
              explicitly removed that right.  -tom
              \_ You should also read what the minority wrote on the subject.
                 Look at Justice Baxter's remarks.  The SC passed on a 4-3
                 decision.  You shouldn't call someone's remarks stupid
                 because you don't agree with them.
                 \_ "The power of a state to regulate and control the
                    basic social relationship of marriage of its
                    domiciliaries is here challenged and set at nought
                    by a majority order of this court arrived at not
                    by a concurrence of reasons but by the end result
                    of four votes supported by divergent concepts not
                    supported by authority and in fact contrary to the
                    decisions in this state and elsewhere...It is
                    difficult to see why such laws, valid when enacted
                    and constitutionally enforceable in this state for
                    nearly 100 years and elsewhere for a much longer
                    period of time, are now unconstitutional under the
                    same Constitution and with no change in the
                    factual situation. It will also be shown that they
                    have a valid legislative purpose even though they
                    may not conform to the sociogenetic views of some
                    people. When that legislative purpose appears it
                    is entirely beyond judicial power, properly
                    exercised, to nullify them."
                    Perez v. Sharp, 1948, J. Shenk, dissenting.
                    The fact that it was 4-3, or that someone dissented,
                    does not make the decision any less valid, any more
                    than J. Shenk's dissent made interracial marriage
                    less valid.  -tom
                    P.S.: I called it stupid because it's stupid.  -tom
                    \_ stupid = bitter Nikon shooters who got left behind
                       by stupid Nikon management that can't compete
                       in the digital world.
                    \_ What exactly is stupid about it?  Marriage has
                       never in human history been done between gays.
                       No society openly celebrated such official unions.
                       Applying the word "marriage" to same-sex couples
                       is redefinition.
                       \_ "gays can still get married, just not to people
                          of the same sex" is incredibly stupid.  As stupid
                          as "blacks can get married, just not to whites."
                            -tom
                          \_ Those aren't the same thing.  You're stupid.
                             Gays are self selected.
                             \_ Prove it.  -tom
                       \_ Are you really this ignorant or are you just trolling?
                       \_ Are you really this ignorant or are you just
                          trolling?
                        http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_same-sex_unions
                         \_ I don't trust this site.
                            <DEAD>en.mormonpedia.org<DEAD> is more accurate.
                         \_ That article is full of complete shit.  The
                            examples generally have nothing to do with the
                            type of union exemplified by "marriage".
                            \_ Just because Christ isn't involved doesn't
                               mean it isn't marriage.
                               \_ You = Idiot.
                            \_ Your reading comprehension is poor.
                               \_ No, yours is.  The article brings up
                                  mere incidences of gayness, which isn't
                                  in question, so it's fucking idiotic to put
                                  it in that article, although "unions" is
                                  pretty vague already so maybe the entire
                                  article is pointless.  It also brings up
                                  pederasty which is irrelevant and also
                                  nothing like a marriage/familial
                                  relationship.  "marriage" is an English
                                  word with a specific usage history.
                                  \_ "marriage" comes from the Old French
                                     "mariage", which in turn comes from
                                     the Latin "maritatus", which far
                                     predates the English language.
                                     \_ That doesn't refute my statement.
                                  \_ "The fact that marriage occurred between
                                      two men among the Romans is proved by a
                                      law in the Theodosian Code from the
                                      Christian emperors Constantius and
                                      Constans which was passed on December 16,\
                                      342. Martial attests to same-sex
                                      Constans which was passed on December 16,
                                      342. Martial attests to same-sex
                                      marriages between men during the early
                                      Roman Empire. The first recorded marriage
                                      between two men occurred during the
                                      reign of the Emperor Nero, who is
                                      reported to have married two other men
                                      on different occasions." You == bad reader
                                      on different occasions." You == bad
                                      reader
                                      \_ That law is banning homos and it is
                                         strangely written.  It certainly
                                         doesn't "prove" that gay marriage was
                                         previously accepted.  Nero might have
                                         done all sorts of things, Caligula
                                         fucked his sister and claimed he was
                                         a god, that doesn't mean it's a norm.
                                         In 390 they made gay sex punishable by
                                         burning to death.  Marriage is
                                         inherently about public recognition
                                         and all evidence is that homosexuality
                                         was ridiculed in Roman society.
                                         \_ Let me ask you this: what
                                            difference does it make to you
                                            whether gays call it marriage or
                                            civil unions or whatever?  Does
                                            it affect you that they call
                                            their intercourse "sex"?  What
                                            societal purpose is there to
                                            refusing to allow them to use
                                            the generally accepted term for
                                            a committed coupling?  -tom
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tinyurl.com/6g6up4 -> www.latimes.com/news/opinion/commentary/la-oew-jacobs8-2008dec08,0,3004487.story
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en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_same-sex_unions
Although state-recognized same-sex marriage is a relatively new phenomenon in Western society, there is a long history of same-sex unions around the world. Various types of same-sex unions have existed, ranging from informal, unsanctioned relationships to highly ritualized unions. Such desire often took the form of same-sex unions, usually between men, and often included some difference in age. There is far less information available on relationships among women in ancient times. Historical pederastic couples Some early Western societies integrated, and even celebrated, same-sex relationships, though it should be noted these relationships were generally substantially different from traditional marriage and in some cases co-existed with traditional marriage. We order the statutes to arise, the laws to be armed with an avenging sword, that those infamous persons who are now, or who hereafter may be, guilty may be subjected to exquisite punishment. eromenos) who had come of age were, it has been argued, analogous to marriage in several aspects but not recognisd as marriage. The age of the youth was similar to the age at which women married (the mid-teens, though in some city states, as young as age seven), and the relationship could only be undertaken with the consent of the father. This consent, just as in the case of a daughter's marriage, was contingent on the suitor's social standing. The relationship, just like a marriage, consisted of very specific social and religious responsibilities and also had a sexual component. At the same time, many of these relationships might be more clearly understood as mentoring relationships between adult men and young boys rather than an analog of marriage. 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The teachings of the Talmud and Torah, and the Bible, specifically prohibited the practices as contrary to nature and the will of the Creator, and a moral shortcoming. edit Modern Europe In the 20th and 21st centuries various types of legal same-sex unions have come to be accepted in the majority of European countries as they have modernized and become secularized. Opposition to gay marriage or unions comes from Christian groups, almost exclusively, especially from the Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox Churches. Religious countries such as Greece, Romania and Poland (and other Eastern European countries) continue to refuse to allow even same-sex unions, while more progressive equally religious countries such as Ireland and Italy are in the process of legislating on the issue. Two-Spirit-type relationships, in which some male members of the tribe, from an early age, heed a calling to take on female gender with all its responsibilities. 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