8/28    hey motd-no-sex guy, i deleted your post, and then someone
        tried to post some helpful advice for you, but that was out
        of order and placed in some weird SPARE THE AIR stanza
        so I deleted that too.  Sorry.  I hope you'll be ok.
           \_ Well, don't give yourself too much credit or sell yourself short.
              Libido can be affected by you not doing the dishes or stress at
              her work, or just about anything. Try communicating, but be
              prepared to be patient; odds are good you're not going to get the
              whole story the first time around, and no good will come of a
              conversation that begins with "Why don't you want to have sex
              anymore?" Last, if it's hormonal, she ought to see a doctor.
              1) It's often treatable, and 2) it can be a precursor to other
              medical conditions. Good look.
              \_ I learned from the motd there is no point in talking to your
                 wife/gf.