3/15 To the young women dater guy: does this sound like your friend?
http://csua.org/u/f9j (MSN http://Match.com article)
\_ I'm not the young dater guy but I have to agree with
the poster. IMHE young women tend to be more open minded.
\_ more open^H^H^H^Hblow jobs
They are willing to try new things like Ethiopian restaurants or
even McD when convenience is needed. Older women tend to be very
picky with regard to food, cars, and even clothes you wear.
Here is one data point-- a nice young girl I dated for 9 years
got bitcher and bitcher. She complained about my hairstyle
and clothes and how loudly I closed cupboards and why I didn't
put down the toilet seat and other bullshit that had been
there 9 years ago. We used to be happy eating at cheap
restaurants but towards the end she had to pick on every little
thing like this food has too much salt, that food has too much
MSG, you need to get a bigger apartment or buy a house, whatever.
Face it. As women grow older, they expect more and they demand
more. My mother is the same thing. She always wants more and
nothing made her happy. Understandably, my dad left her decades
ago. You guys seriously like older women? Whatever. You take your
old hags and I'll take my stress free young women, and let's
leave it at that.
\_ So, based on a sample set consisting of two women, i.e. this
girl you once dated and your mother, you've concluded that all
women turn into bitches as they age. That's scientific. -dans
\_ I think the guy is a moron, but he's right that women
expect more as they age. That's to be expected and there's
nothing wrong with that. A 16 year old girl is impressed
if you have a car. A 20 year old woman is impressed if you
have a good job. A 50 year old woman has entirely different
expectations about family and retirement and so on. An
18 year old might only care about drinking and getting
laid, but by the time she is 38 years old (if she matures
in a 'normal' way) she expects more from her life and more
from the men she is involved with. Men who continually
seek out young women are predators of sorts, the
exception perhaps being if they want to have children
and are of an age where similarly aged women can't
provide them.
\_ Upshot of the whole discussion:
Whatever floats your boat. -John
\_ I am amazed and sort of depressed at the amount of
\_ I am amazing and sort of depressed at the amount of
pointless nagging guys mostly put up with from their
women [I know women put up with other problems from
guys]. I remember once a friend was driving to LA
with his GF/wife/fiance [dont remember her status at
the time] and we all stopped at Safeway to buy some
snacks for the road and she complained there was a
parking spot 10ft closer to the store. Jesus
Christ, you aren't 80yrs old and it's not like you
are offering to drive half way [and we were going
are offereing to drive half way [and we were going
to see her ex-BF's gallery opening]. Things like
that are small in themselves but I think they are a
bad sign.
\_ I don't know if it's necessarily a bad sign,
neither my wife nor my mother are big naggers.
However, my sister-in-law nags like crazy, and
I don't mean to just her husband. She nags my
wife, me, my mother-in-law, everybody. It's
just her personality.
\_ I think some forms of nagging have the same
underlying cause as people who are habiually
late: the offenders dont value other people's
time. Another friend has a sister-in-law
who ask my friend to say dl and burn DVDs for
them etc ... gee, why dont you pay $3.50 to
the video store. Again, this self-serving
form of naggery is a different phenomena
than say a mother who nags her kids to study,
clean their room etc. |
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