3/14 got my gf to get on the pill so that we could do bareback but later
she got off the pill cuz she didn't like it. then she started to
deny some anal. then no anal, at all. then only regular vaginal sex
if i using condoms. then only thick condoms. then less sex like
\_ why?
once every two weeks. now, no sex, at all. all this in a 3 year
time span. is this like, normal? it's my fourth relationship and
the same thing happens every single relationship. sex life is
good in the beginning but always gets worse and worse
till it no longer exists. please don't delete, i wanna ask
how other sodans cope with this problem. do u take anti-depressants
or go to shrinks?
\_ You should go to a church and convert to Christianity. They
teach you that you don't need anything else except to love God
and love from God. As long as there's God, you'll be happy.
My gf stopped having sex with me after her Christian friends
convinced her that pre-marrital sex is bad. Now we both go to
church and no longer have sex. I'm not happy about it at all
but like she says, give God a chance. I'll give him a year then
accept it, or just move on. Halleluja, God is great!
\_ Remember: God doesn't want you to be happy.
\_ ? you're nuts if you're not a troll. It's over. Move on.
\_ why don't you just get married?
\_ For some women, there's indication that the pill might
permanently kill their sex drive. Maybe that's what happened to
her. Does she want to fuck other men?
\_ Um, that sounds like bullshit to me. Loaded bullshit at that.
Kindly point me to evidence (preferably rigorous study, but I'll
take an abundance of anecdotal evidence). -dans
\_ The pill can cause all sorts of unpleasant side effects that
make sex difficult or impractical, but I've never heard of it
actually killing the sex DRIVE. Perhaps the PP is thinking of
antidepressants? --!pp
\_ No, it's not normal, yes, it does happen, yes, it sucks. No
answer for you.
\_ On the contrary, I think it is completely normal for the
frequency of sex to diminish over time. It doesn't always
happen, but it happens enough to be normal. She's bored
of you. Either dump her or resign yourself to a lifetime
of this. What does she say when you ask her about it (not
that it matters, because you will hear all sorts of stories)?
I've been there, done that, read the books, seen the
therapist, and it boils down to some bitches (a lot of them,
in fact) are just like that. There are a lot of reasons why
and you won't be able to fix most of them. My suggestion is
to move on and go get yourself another hot, willing chick.
The French and Italians would say that if she's a good life
partner otherwise then perhaps you just need a mistress.
\_ And if you think a guy who talks about "some bitches" and
"hot, willing chick[s]" has any useful advice, please return
your Cal diploma before you embarrass yourself and us.
\_ You take things too literally. Yermom doesn't count
as valid experience. Sometimes you have to call
bitches bitches and not sugarcoat things.
\_ Done. You're an idiot.
\_ This makes me laugh. I'm gonna guess you are
a "sensitive male". You gotta call a bitch a
bitch and a ho a ho.
\_ Good. Now you're a laughing idiot.
\_ I disagree. I think he's just been around the
block a few times more than you. -someone else
\_ Unfortunately, this has nothing to do with
his idiocy.
\_ I'm an idiot because I call a chick
who stops putting out a bitch? You
know what I call one that *does* put
out? A slut!
\_ geeks behind their computer talking
tough always make me laugh.
- someone else
\_ heh, yeah -- this guy's pretty
entertaining.
\_ and don't forget, the above
poster could be a girl
\_ Thank you! I'll be at the
Stardust Lounge all week.
\_ heh, np! :P
\_ When you have sex, is there anything in it for her? (i.e. does she
come every time?)
\_ She just wants to break up with you but is being passive agressive
about it. Ask her about your sex life, but be prepared to move on.
Not "all women" are like this, but the ones that are tired of you
are. |
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