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Well, I probably should not do this, but I will -- I will share the secrets of the littl e-known ass fuck conspiracy. But only if you promise to use it only for the greater good (aka: pleasure). Talking, pressuring or coercing your girl into anal isn't effect ive. Pleasuring her into it is a whole different story........ THE BASIC RULE: You must be well-versed in pleasuring the "usual" parts. If you're not already givi ng your girl heights of orgasmic pleasure like she's never seen, you're not ready for the ass fuck conspiracy. If you're not skilled with her va gina and related parts (and genuinely enjoy being so), there's no way sh e's letting you near the "other" place. If this is an issue, go back and figure it out, then proc eed only when you've practiced more. Step #1: Orgasms, orgasms, and more orgasms (for her, duh). If you're pro viding your girl with many lovely and varied types of O's, she's going t o have an inherent trust in your knowledge of and ability in the area of pleasuring her, which is going to make the issue of ass fucking much mo re considerable. While you're down there showing off yo ur superior oral abilities and facilitating those O's, mix-it up a bit - - flick your tongue, swirl it, and perform oral on and around her asshol e This will not only introduce her to the fact that there are many love ly nerve-endings there, which she will most likely enjoy, but will exhib it the fact that you are adventurous and appreciative of and committed t o the pleasure of her entire being. This creates a much different atmosp here then that of completely avoiding her asshole and then trying to sti ck something in it. You m ay have heard of this little place between the pussy and the asshole. If you are enjoying or working up to Step #2, don't forget this little pla ce for licking, etc. There are a couple different sections to the "finger ing" step. Fingering begins on, around and in the vulval area (which you know if you've adhered to the Basic Rule). Specific to the ass fuck con spiracy is the fact that inside the vagina itself, there are many specia l "spots." It may have its own special na me, but I don't remember it right now. Its on the opposite side of the " G" -- that's right, on the wall seperating her pussy from her ass. special because it feels really good when stimulated -- tickled, rubbed, pressed on, up, down, side to side, circular, you have to experiment a bit to find the right stimulus for your girl. Also special because most girls haven't ha d lovers who have taken the time to find all their internal special spot s, particularly this one, and if you are that special lover then you hav e already set yourself apart in a really great way. And special because when you are stimulating this little area, you are actually stimulating her asshole, which is your ultimate goal here in the ass fuck conspiracy . Now, if she really responds to the stimulation of this little area, as evidenced by the usual signs specifying heightened pleasure, you should feel really encouraged. You are most likely golden for ass fucking some time in your very near future. If she's unresponsive, unsure or she out and out doesn't like it, you may have to reconsider your options or at l east spend more time on steps 1-3. At some point, you're going to want to procee d with your superior fingering skills on into her ass. One -- you want to relax that mostly tight, unrelaxed space slowly. You want to open her up in a pleasurable way, not just ram your tool in there. You try one finger --- slowly, see how that goes, then probably t wo. Most people know this even if they aren't familiar with the secrets of the ass fuck conspiracy. Reason two -- not only are you relaxing the space, you are pleasuring her. You are now in the vicinity of the revers e G -- but now on the other side of the internal t'aint. So, while you're exploring, relaxing and fingering here , your job is to help her enjoy it. While your fingers are in her ass, y ou are actually stimulating spots in her vagina. In t hat light, most of your movements should be directed "up," towards her v agina, as opposed to "down," away from it. It turns out, that nature, in her ever-comical way of tripping us up, has actually made some really g reat pleasure spots in the vagina easier to reach from the asshole. Even more funny since most women won't let you anywhere near their asshole. This is where I should tell you that many women who haven't experienced vaginal orgasms can and will experience " anal" orgasms via this method. Remember -- its because when you are in h er ass, you are really stimulating spots in her vagina. Also remember th at the internal t'aint (either side) is a very delicate, thin area (alth ough strong, especially if she kegels), so act accordingly -- nothing to o rough or jamming, please. Again, you have to experiment a bit to find out just where her great spots are and to what stimulus she responds bes t This should be no problem for you, since at this point, having incorp orated all of the above, you are a master lover -- adept at reading all the clues from your lover and responding accordingly. She may love it, but she may feel weird or out of control, a nd hence, want to stop. Deal with it without whining no matter how much you were "progressing" with the plan and are bummed you can't p roceed. While you're doing all that other stuff, encourage her to play with her clit, or you do it with your other hand. Reasons for this are twofold: One, her clit is a pleasure p lace, and you want a pavlovian-type association going on here. This is a good time to mention THE GOLDEN RULE: Never ass to pussy! Pussy to ass, OK, but don't put anything in any other places after they've be en in her ass, it could lead to yucky infections. Now, if you're lucky, and all of the above s teps have been successful, you may just find that she's asking you to fu ck her ass. Anyway, you may now be ready to put your cock in her ass. There are many ways to go about t his, keeping in mind the foundation of lube, limits and pacing as mentio ned above. Here are some tips, since much has been written (and can be f ound) on how to proceed with ass fucking. well, it feels good, loosens up the entire area (remember, its all very close together), she may have more orgasms, especially give n all the above action, its good for lubrication purposes. There are oth er types -- her juices, your spit, be inventive, use what's there. Tip #3: You introduce your tool, let her back onto it at her pace, with y ou facilitating -- gently, slowly, adding a teensy tinsy bit of equal re sistance every time she makes a move. This is teamwork -- you adding res istince provides extra sensation, and if she's hesitant and has already demonstrated she likes you to be "in control" or she likes to be led dow n debaucherous paths, she needs you to keep the pace or she may abort th e mission. I know you're excited, I know you're having fun, but keep tra ck of her responses and don't lose her! Again, as above, pa vlovian connection and increased pleasure. Most people only think of one or two positions w hen planning ass fucking, but don't forget "girl on top," it works for a nal too. Reverse cowgirl anal gives her control over depth and movement and allows her to experiment and find all the good spots, what feels bes t to her. Tip #6: If she's really enjoying it, she may squirt (see above). For those set on indulging in thi s taboo action, you wear a condom and have her wear a female condom, the n everyone is safe and you can go back and forth. Otherwise, never ass t o pussy unless you wash (thoroughly) or switch condoms. Even if you're n ot overly concerned about your partner's health (which you should be), t hink of it this way: even if she loves it, you're not doing it again any time soon if you give her an infection through sloppy habits. You see, due to various psycho-social factors as well as thin lines between pleasure and pain, your girl may feel the need to tell you to stop or s ay no even if she doesn't want you to. Come up with something else -- "red" or "pickle" or "s murf" or anything at all that doesn't usually come up in ...
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