5/22 This is related to the uneducated bus driver lawsuit post below.
What you believe, what values you hold, what you think is
right/wrong is really a reflection of how you were
raised up as a kid. What most of you don't realize is that
most people in this world never had a chance to have
the kind of social/economic background, education, and moral
values you grew up with that you take for granted. Should these
poor/uneducated people be treated with less respect because they
grew up in a hostile environment that fosters lying, cheating,
threats, and other traits that you deem negative, but allows
them to survive? Furthermore do you think it was their choice to
grow up in such an environment? If you take all the wonderful
things you've taken for granted, I bet you'd think and
do the exact same thing as these people too. So *please*,
have more empathy for those people who are less fortunate than
you. And PS while I think the bus driver is a bad person, the
self-righteous op is a total asshole and should just pay for
the damages because he has a bad attitude.
-guy who grew up poor, absolutely no sympathy for the op
\- just out of curiosity, does Affirmative Action
fill you with hate? How about legacy admissions?
Which do you hate more? --psb
\_ Whichever one takes up more spots from those who
earned a seat the hard way. You can add sports
admits to the list while you're at it.
\- well let's ask it this way, between A, B and C
who are identical except A is AlumniFamily,
B is Black and C is a BasketBall Center, how
do you rate A,B,C in terms of admission order?--psb
\_ DCBA, D=SES (ie poorness). C because it's kinda
like maintaining a part time job, then B
because A is worthless.
\_ I assign zero extra points to all three.
\_ I'd assign a little to the Basketball player
because he has less free time for academics
but managed the same grades, and he'll help the
school raise money. -!op, doesn't like sports.
\_ Sports are a talent, like art or dance,
and deserve to be recognized.
\_ Agreed, but they should not be valued
above academic achievement.
\_ says who? they are all equally
important. quit discrimintating!
\_ fuck no, you know there are other things that
take time from academics. basketball doesn't
make you a better person than a violinist or
whatever. or a video game junkie ;)
\_ I don't believe in the 'Tolkien Orc' theory of moral development.
I believe people have an intuitive understanding of right and wrong,
and growing up around immoral people does not, ultimately, excuse
immoral behavior. You are going to tell me I was better off in
lovely USSR than people here in inner cities? You don't know what
bad is. -- ilyas
\- while the circumstances of your upbringing do affect
your deportment and values, first of all, there is more
to it than "economic class". i suppose it is a bit of a
cliche but you dont need to buy into any kind of model
minority myth to appreciate many not-especually welloff
asian/indian children do have more "respect for authority",
whether that is school teachers or parents or elders in
general than those from certain other minotiries. next,
by the time you are in your 20s, especially if you left
your parents sphere for a cosmopolitan place like
berkeley, you have some additional factors to influence
independent development. third, why cultural factors
independent development. third, while cultural factors
may explain certain behaviors, it doenst necessarily
justify them ... relativism observed in sociology or
anthopology dont ness lead to philosophical relativism.
to use a "low" example, it may be the norm in chinese
dimsum places to push your way to the front rather
than take a number, but the macdonals practice of
lining up [one line or n?] is more "civilized". --psb
\_ So you're saying there's something wrong with black kids?
\_ I am sure you were better off growing up in the USSR than
\- the ones who push in front of you while you are in
the middle of a transaction at mcdonalds? yes. --psb
\_ I believe you were better off growing up in the USSR than
really poor people in America are. I don't think you realize
how violent and dangerous the Housing Projects really are.
Something like 1 in 5 young men end up injured or dead and
3 out of 4 in prison. -ausman
3 out of 4 in prison. Having said that, there are -ausman
3 out of 4 in prison. Having said that, there might be more
options or at least the notion of more options for poor
in the US. Poverty is almost as much a state of mind
as a physical condition, at least after the basic needs
are met. -ausman
\_ This is such bullshit. "Oh woe, I'm poor so it's ok that I
totally work the system to totally fuck over some other guy I
hit with my vehicle". Survive? What a bunch of total bullshit.
This isn't some hard scrabble third world nation where one must
kill to get food on the table that night. Our poor live better
than the middle-classes (when they exist) in other countries.
The op certainly should *not* have to pay his own damages that
were inflicted upon him by another party. The op can be the
biggest asshole in the universe but if he was wronged, in this
country, he has the legal right to seek justice. He has done
so. The bus driver made every effort to avoid justice and
thankfully the op was persistent and finally nailed him. Your
whole line of reasoning is insulting and offensive and holier
than thou. Being poor does not in any way relieve one of the
moral duties and obligations the rest of us have. It's called
"being responsible". There was a time I was so poor I couldn't
afford to eat. I owed more than I owned and was in desperate
need of a paycheck but I didn't go out and ruin other people's
lives over it. And, as if mattered, how do you know the bus
driver doesn't make more than the op? If the op is a student,
he's making nothing. Boo hoo, let's all reduce the standards
for poor people because they're subhuman and just can't hack it.
Let's feel superior to them and look down on them and make
exuses for them. Pity the poor and feel better about yourself
at the same time! What a grand philosophy!
\_ I agree with most of what you say but I still think that
calling someone pathetic for making $1600/month as a bus driver
is just wrong. You can call him whatever you want for wrongdoing
the OP but I don't see how making $1600/month through a hard
work automatically makes someone pathetic.
\_ It is obvious to me you have never really been poor and probably
don't even know any genuinely poor people. The middle class
in say, Mexico, have a much better life than poor people
in the US, even if their standards of living are comparable.
But I agree with you on the morality rant. I think that growing
up poor saved me from the materialism that afflicts to many
Americans.
\_ I agree with OP. I was kind of poor growing up and it had a
detrimental effect on my morality. Luckily some of my friends
parents were really good people and their example taught me to
try to be a good person. Furthermore, I'm sure I was much
better off than the 25% of children who lived under the poverty
line in 1994 (source Herbert, B. : "One in Four,"
The New York Times, 16 December 1996 cited from
http://falcon.arts.cornell.edu/ams3/rich1.html This does not
mean that we should excuse criminal or anti-social behavior from
the poor. Instead, we should realize that if we want to reduce
crime and generally make society better for everyone we should
focus on the crippling effect of poverty on children. -!OP
\_ Being poor did not have a detrimental effect on your morality.
There are plenty of poor people with high moral standards. If
there weren't, the streets would be running in blood. You had
no morals because your parents didn't instill any in you. If
wealth == higher morals then why are so many rich people such
complete scumbags? There's no correlation between moral
standards and wealth. The effect of poverty on children is they
don't get enough decent food and are surrounded by drug dealers
who are often their own parents. If you want to reduce crime,
government handouts are not the answer. Instilling moral values
in people will increase moral standards, not government cheese
and section 8 housing.
\_ well, gov't cheese was a result of handouts for the rich.
Cheney got handouts for his pals at Haliburton. The rich have
been getting all kinds of handouts. I guess they earned it
by donating so much money for politicians like Bush, etc.
The moral of the story: milking the system happens at all
levels by every class and ethnicity.
\_ In Japan, kids are required to take ethics class. They're
taught to respect the elderly, to treat others the way
they like to be treated, to observe then act, etc etc.
While I know that many Japanese people still grow up to be
dirty scumbags, I think it really has some effect. Every
JTown in every city I've been to seems a lot cleaner than
Chinatown.
\_ For whatever reasons, Japan is a much more comformist
culture than China. |