4/25    Is innocent flirting considered cheating?  At work, if I'm talking to
        a pretty woman (single or married) I tend to make eye contact
        and smile as we speak.  Some women would smile back and maybe toss
        her hair or giggle if I'm joking about something.  It's harmless
        flirting really.  Anything wrong with this?  -flirty guy :-)
        \_ If you have to ask the question...
        \_ This isn't flirting. It's normal social interaction, you
           pathetic loser.
           \_  man troll
               no manual entry for troll.
        \_ No.  Physical contact or overtly sexual talk is crossing the line.
           \_ No 'line' has been crossed until buttons pop and there's a
              search for condoms.
        \_ Nothing.  If your gf/wife/whatever is upset by this then she's got
           some serious self esteem issues.  Your only issue is choosing your
           gf/wife/etc poorly.  That's not even real flirting.
                \_ yeah but flirting leads to late night coffee and dinner
                   and before you know it both of you may get naked. It's
                   like marijuana, it's a stepping stone to the hardcore drugs
                   \_ Nonsense.  You want him to robotically ignore his female
                      coworkers and get labelled queer?  Bad career move.
                   \_ so if you flirt then you will end up doing speedballs?
        \_ Did this really happen or are you playing Sims Hot Date?
        \_ maybe you should find someone else you totally are happy with
           \_ maybe you're in fantasy land.  some light flirting doesn't mean
              he's unhappy.  it means he's a normal healthy male.  the idea
              that once you're with someone you suddenly become blind to the
              rest of the world or there's something wrong with your current
              relationship is the source of many young stupid women's pointless
              unhappyness and needless misery.
           \_ Like Cindy Margolis or Aria Giovanni.
              \_ If I dated a supermodel, I cheat on her just to be able
                 to say that I was man enough to cheat on a supermodel. -tjb
        \_ "The day you stop looking is THE DAY YOU DIE." - al pacino
           \_ Scent of a Woman (1992)