9/7 my boyfriend loves me, but he can't get it up. what should i do?
he says it's not my fault -- i need sex, but love him and won't
leave him.
\_ it is your fault, you are not a hottie.
\_ It's not CSUA's fault if poor Trevor can't get a stiffy.
\_ it is your fault, you are not a hottie.
\_ Ask him if wearing leather would help. Otherwise, buy him
a strap-on
\_ Maybe he's a girly man and wants to take it in the
behind rather than give it out. Buy yourself the strapon
and give him a good riding. You may need to get him
some lingere also.
\_ buy a vibrator. pearl rabbit makes you climax every time.
\_ For some reason, I'm beginning to doubt the veracity of
these motd counseling requests ...
\_ You're only just now beginning to doubt them?
\_ Maybe your boyfriend is not gay. He needs to be turned on
by a woman, not a man.
\_ Maybe your boyfriend needs to be turned on by a
450-pound ex-male wrestler victim of steroid
hair growth halitosis experiments. -John
\_ I'm a woman!
\_ You'd like to think that, now, would you, girly-man.
\_ Just in case this is a serious post, here is a serious answer:
Stress can cause a lot of sexual problems. Try to get your
boyfriend to relax before you initiate sex. For example,
give him a back rub or take a nap together and then try
having sex. Good luck.
\_ Thank you. It _was_ a serious posting. I know I shouldn't
post to the motd, but I'm trying to take every piece of advice
I can get! I can't even really talk to him about it much,
he doesn't like to talk much about it. He is a workaholic,
and his stress has been higher lately.
\_ Indeed.
\_ He should see a urologist. It could be stress,
testosterone levels, blood flow problems, etc.
\_ Tell him you want to start seeing other people.
\_ That is NOT going to reduce the guy's stress levels!
\_ No, but she'll finally start getting some low stress sex
for herself. He needs to go deal on his own time and stop
being a wimp. |