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At worst a living hell with financial ruin thrown in for good measure. The problem is that when youre young, you just naturally fall into this mind set where your whole self image is based on how women regard you, and so you spend all your money and energy trying to make yourself acceptable to them. Then later in life the shine wears off and you finally realize that youve wasted yourself on a bunch of crap. Children - the ultimate human experience I couldnt even begin to list all of the older folks i know from work or through my family with kids they either dont get along with, are disappointed in, or are so distant as to not even be a factor in each others lives. Im really skeptical about the idea of children as the ultimate blessing. How many friends do you have with little or no meaningful contact or relationships with their parents? I would wager the statistic for happy child/parent relations would be as bad, if not worse, than the marriage numbers.
If I was married I wouldnt have the money and Id have to ask HER permission. Dont get married unless you are absolutely religiously in love with her. Like carry her sick aged body to the toilet and wipe her ass and be happy to do it kind of love. What Im saying is that human beings are nasty weak treacherous creatures that are for the most part totally untrustworthy. Experience is my basis for this statement, both mine and others who I know or who have written reliable histories. If you can find a woman to be your companion who is not treacherous, a deceitful little actress, a sly whore or a manipulative nag or a shrieking hag, then you are among the lucky few. Ok, assume that you will end up divorced and wont see your kids and lose half of your assets, how different is that from being married? Most married guys I know are working their asses off to pay bills, rarely to get to spend time with their families, mediocre or no sex life, and have wives that spend as much of their money as absolutely possible.
And for the 80 that do go through divorce, it will financially ruin you for life. You can take your best 10 earning years from say, 35 to 45 and take all the wealth you would have accumulated and flush it down the toilet. But the worst thing is to force it, to make gross exertions and ignore all sorts of red lights going off just to be hooked up and normal. After years of experience Ive discovered their most commonly used strategy.
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