12/2 Help. I've had several jobs and none of them seem to give me
a good work-and-life balance. While this didn't matter when
I was young, I'm beginning to realize that I'm reaching an age
where I really need that balance. What is your workplace like,
and how do you reach a good work-and-life balance? P.S. I
don't need tom^H^H^Hgov workers to gloat about cushy gov jobs.
\_ I work at a big company (Top 10 website) and work 45-50 hrs/wk.
I am a middle manager, but most people work about that much here,
maybe a bit less. There are lots of parents and the company makes
a point of being family friendly. Most people stay here a very
long time, which tells you something right there. I used to work
at startups, but once the first kid was born, looked for a less
demanding corporate job and found it. -ausman
\_ so all the startups were too intense for a family guy?
\_ I have worked at three of them and yes, they would all have
been too much. Maybe after the kids are a little bit older.
There are probably startups out there that it is okay to
work less at, especially if you are not that ambitious.
\_ can you give me a few examples why it's too much?
like, chaos, bandaid, pager all the time, etc?
\_ Have you ever worked at a startup?
\_ no. tell us.
\_ Every one I have ever worked at the average
engineer or sysadmin put in 55+ hrs/wk. As a
sysadmin you are constantly being hounded to fix
random broken shit RIGHT NOW, usually by people
who are standing around your desk waiting for
your attention. You can expect to be called in
the middle of the night to fix anything that
you might remotely have anything to do with.
You will never have enough hours, or hardware
or management support to really do the stuff
that really needs to get done. And these were
all successful start-ups (two IPOs and one
buyout)!
\_ ok, IT really sucks, startup or not. But
what about sales and marketing?
\_ I have no idea. IT does not suck in a
well run company. |