10/30 Have you ever had a relationship, gone to being "friends", and
then gone back to relationship status? Or heard of anyone you
know having done this?
\_ This is called being a "fuck buddy".
\_ I'm sure this happens.
\_ Yes, and dear god was it a mistake. There is a reason you broke
up in the first place.
\_ what if they mostly were her reasons, not mine? also she's hot.
\_ It happens and it can last longer than the initial
relationship, especially if said relationship was done in
by time-dependent circumstances (e.g. long distance,
not over someone else, immaturity). The naysayers are
right in one sense though: Make sure it's official if
that's what you want.
\_ Then fuck her if you feel like it but you're not in a real
relationship anymore and should always put her last behind
absolutely everyone and everything else.
\_ And post pics.
\_ I second this.
\_ How about breaking up, becoming friends, and then sleeping
with them once in a while?
\_ Fuck buddies.
\_ aaron and lila?
\_ I know nothing about aaron and lila. I was only
providing the name for what that person was talking
about: fuck buddies.
\_ you don't have to break up first to be fuck buddies.
\_ you're not serious. --aaron
\_ hey man, i don't know him, but he sounds serious
to me. -- some random dude
\_ As long as it's mutually agreed that there's no attachment
but rather just simply sleeping together then it would be
okay. But IME there aren't too any women who can promise
that they won't develop a certain kind of attachment. There
ARE some, but like I said, not many. I wish you luck.
\_ what does sleeping together have anything to do
with emotional attachment? Does that mean if I
jackoff to a porn star I will start loving her or
if I sleep with the hooker we'll both become
emotionally attached? Your logic makes very little
sense.
\_ I said I was talking about the girl, you idiot.
And notice I said SOME. Stop generalizing and
read the comments more carefully.
\_ johns become emotionally attached to hookers
all the time.
\_ Get lost, it's meaningful. Kandee is
a really nice girl. -John
\_ Strawman. He didn't say either of them was
getting off alone to a screen pic or movie.
They're having sex. Maybe you're not a strawman
bashing troll but a poor sad pathetic motd virgin
who really honestly believes getting off to a
porn star or paying a hooker is the same as
having sex with your ex-gf? I pity you.
\_ In my experience it is more likely that the guy will
have difficulties staying emotionally unattached. Maybe
it is me and my friends though, we tend toward the
SNAG types.
\_ You mean you associate putting your penis into a
woman's vagina for a few minutes a week with the
emotional commitment required for a LTR? Check. |